Solomon on How to Be a Man: The Opportunity We Have

Proverbs was written for everyone, but it is directed towards an ideal reader. Who is the ideal reader? An older boy or a young man—someone near the threshold of adulthood.

While everyone can and should read Proverbs to learn about living in the world, the book is especially aimed at teaching boys on how to be a man.

I know it’s problematic comparing Jordan Peterson to Solomon, but it is still worth doing. “Grow up and be useful” does summarize a major thrust of Proverbs. And the popularity of Jordan Peterson’s lectures and book demonstrates why more Proverbs may be especially useful at this time in our culture.

Recently The Atlantic published a stellar article by Caitlin Flanagan, one of their contributing editors, entitled, “Why the Left Is So Afraid of Jordan Peterson.” She begins: Continue reading “Solomon on How to Be a Man: The Opportunity We Have”

Solomon on Internet Porn

Proverbs seems aimed at a young man–someone who is at least an adolescent since he is capable of being sexually tempted. He may be old enough to be a young married man. After all, one of Solomon’s exhortations is to be satisfied with one’s young wife (Proverbs 5:18-19).

I don’t know at what age men got married in Israel in Solomon’s day, but his wisdom seems aimed at males ranging from adolescence to early marriage. Continue reading “Solomon on Internet Porn”

What Charles Spurgeon said of preachers applies to everybody.

Every workman knows the necessity of keeping his tools in a good state of repair, for “if the iron be blunt, and he do not whet the edge, then must he put to more strength.” If the workman lose the edge from his adz, he knows that there will be a greater draught upon his energies, or his work will be badly done. […]

We are, in a certain sense, our own tools, and therefore must keep ourselves in order. If I want to preach the gospel, I can only use my own voice; therefore I must train my vocal powers. I can only think with my own brains, and feel with my own heart, and therefore I must educate my intellectual and emotional faculties. I can only weep and agonize for souls in my own renewed nature, therefore must I watchfully maintain the tenderness which was in Christ Jesus. It will be in vain for me to stock my library, or organize societies, or project schemes, if I neglect the culture of myself; for books, and agencies, and systems, are only remotely the instruments of my holy calling; my own spirit, soul, and body, are my nearest machinery for sacred service; my spiritual faculties, and my inner life, are my battle ax and weapons of war.

Sleepwalking through life usually makes it worse

I wrote in my post on the ants in Proverb 6:

At some point, I will share my argument that sleeping in and missing work is the least of the problems Solomon is addressing. His larger point with sleep is that we need to pay attention to our lives and what we need. If we’re sleep walking through life we are not providing for our future needs because we’re not aware of them.

So let’s look again at what Proverbs 6 says about sleep: Continue reading “Sleepwalking through life usually makes it worse”

Post at Kuyperian: “Solomon as Driver’s Ed Teacher”

The first project I plan to complete is a book for young adults on Proverbs. That’s more or less the reason I started “Solomon Says” (with gracious help from others, including the name of the website). I have written what I might use as a Preface to that book HERE.

The ability to drive a car is a necessary skill for most people in industrialized countries. As a result, it has become a rite of passage into adulthood.

I’ve taught three children how to drive and every one of them experienced not only changing abilities but expanded knowledge. Shortly before they started driving they showed little awareness of the network of roads and locations around our home, even when traveling on familiar routes to familiar places. I would ask them what direction we were heading or where I should turn, and they usually had no idea.

They were just along for the ride. Since they relied on someone else to drive, they didn’t waste mental capacity on such things.

But when they got behind the steering wheel that changed quickly. Suddenly, the maps inside their heads expanded to include virtually the entire metro area and surrounding counties. Learning to drive gave them a new dominion. They grew in their knowledge to accommodate their new powers for a larger realm. It was a profound transformation. When they took on adult responsibilities they transitioned to adult thinking.

So, let’s think about how a child develops when he learns how to drive.

Genesis & Proverbs

Proverbs talks about creation and wisdom.

Trees of life spring up more than once.

There is a lot about sons being a source of sorrow to their mothers, who had originally praised God they had gotten a man with the help of Yahweh.

And there are fools refusing to listen to rebukes or instruction, when a wise person says, “If you do well, will you not be accepted?”

Lots of warnings about the sons of god desiring the daughters of men.

Violence receives a lot of attention.

What kind of counsel a wife gives is discussed.

And what sort of wife ought to be valued.

Diligence is promised to be rewarded with dominion.

And though wisdom is more valuable than the gold of Havilah, it is a way to get that too.

There are springs of life.

And how cities are built is an important issue.

It is easy to read Proverbs as a meditation on Genesis.

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Proverbs is difficult for many reasons, one of which is how far “theology” has drifted from the story of the Bible. I’m not necessarily talking about false theology. Even correct theology as it is commonly taught turns Proverbs into alien territory.

Maybe I can explain what the problem is this way:

If you are a believer in a religion that is best expressed as four spiritual laws or a flow-chart or a chart about the dispensations of history, or a scheme of double predestination, or many other things (some of which may or may not be true–the issue is not veracity but primacy), then it will be a mystery to you why God wrote the book of Proverbs and put it in our Bibles.

But…

If you are a practitioner of a religion centered on a story that begins with how God made men and women to relate to Him and one another as they take dominion over the world, and move downstream from their garden home, and find gold, and start trading and have to raise children and eventually build cities that are supposed to further reflect the glory of God, then you will completely understand why the book of Proverbs had to be included as Scripture.